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First appointment

3/20/15       8:32

Arlinton and I had our first prenatal appointment this week. Before the appointment I was asked whether I was nervous. I was not; I was excited. It was nice to finally go to a doctor and get medical care. It feels like it's really difficult to ask for appointment time despite me profession. Nevertheless, appointments are granted to expectant mothers with less push back. I plan to take the full advantage of this opportunity. Once I arrived to the office, I immediately ran to the bathroom. Two minutes later I was asked for a urine sample and had no problem delivering. My frequency of urination has been incredible recently. My OB is quick and efficient, but she took her time when she showed us our new family addition. I was ecstatic to see that our little one was healthy, reaching milestones, and had a strong heartbeat. I feel the experience solidified that my pregnancy is official and that life is absolutely precious. No tears yet, but I'm sure they will come soon.

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