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First appointment

3/20/15       8:32 Arlinton and I had our first prenatal appointment this week. Before the appointment I was asked whether I was nervous. I was not; I was excited. It was nice to finally go to a doctor and get medical care. It feels like it's really difficult to ask for appointment time despite me profession. Nevertheless, appointments are granted to expectant mothers with less push back. I plan to take the full advantage of this opportunity. Once I arrived to the office, I immediately ran to the bathroom. Two minutes later I was asked for a urine sample and had no problem delivering. My frequency of urination has been incredible recently. My OB is quick and efficient, but she took her time when she showed us our new family addition. I was ecstatic to see that our little one was healthy, reaching milestones, and had a strong heartbeat. I feel the experience solidified that my pregnancy is official and that life is absolutely precious. No tears yet, but I'm sure they will come

Company

One of the most exciting things this pregnancy is that a few of my friends are pregnant as well. At least 7 of my acquaintances are pregnant now. Two of them are really close friends that have due dates within weeks of my own. Some of the other mothers have deliveries in the next two weeks. It has been awesome to have this shared experience because it offers more support than I can receive on a forum. Granted, the chicks on the forum are all about tmi with talks about cm, but they don't know me. My friends know me and know what will excite or scare me from this experience. The shared pregnancy has also made me closer to these lovely ladies. Pregnancy has rearranged my priorities entirely. I value sleep and talking with loved ones more than ever. If work is the least bit optional it takes the back burner. I think the pregnancy has also helped me to realize what is really important and most important to myself. I am putting my needs first. My pregnancy partners have also helped me wi